SOMETHING ABOUT LOVE

To all those singles out there!!!

Yet you didn't find your love?

The one whom you found to be your love, was not exactly the one you needed?

Let’s take a break!!

Let’s not love before we actually know what love is.

Let’s just not implement trial and error method in choosing a life partner.

It makes damage at both ends.

Choosing the wrong one and being with them hurts even more.

Nobody is good or bad; it’s about finding the right partner.

Good, bad differs with each.

It’s important to find the exact love, real love to avoid landing in desert in search of palm tree.

First of all, never think of getting a partner, before you love yourself. When you are not in love-with you, when you don’t love yourself, it’s difficult for you to understand who you are. Love yourself first.

Love your family.

“The first thing you need to think, when choosing a girl is whether she will be perfect with your family”- TT.Rangarajan (UNPOSTED LETTER)

It’s easy to say it’s my life. Yes it’s your life. But every time since you born you are your parents life. You have your dream of your life may be for last 5 -6 years. They have their dreams about your life at least 10 months more than your age. Without knowing you, loving your family you are unfit to choose your better half.

"The best thing occurs by itself when believed"

When it occurs you will feel it. You will never think about it. Feeling is different from thinking.

You ought to find your better half only when you know better about you than anybody.

It’s not as simple as buying a mobile phone and replacing it later with a better one because your requirements are realized later.

One of my friend use to give this advice whenever we speak about love:

“Saying YES too soon, saying NO too late is always dangerous in love"

It’s good to wait really wait till you start feeling and stop thinking.

The number of Dropped love stories might be higher than the successful and failed love stories together.

 “You are gifted when you are the first love of a woman or the last love of a man”

Read it somewhere.Being a man I am sure about the latter.

Love yourself, your family, what you do, love everything around and wait for the moment, the moment you feel it.

But the problem is in finding the difference between feel and think.

That is what everybody says it should come from heart not from mind.

Heart makes you feel. Mind makes you to think.

Mind gives you instant answers. Heart makes you to understand answers.

Understanding always takes time.

I may be wrong for many. But I am sure I will be right for somebody!!!

Love is everything. It is in everything, with everybody.

Doing a mistake is ok.

But the actual mistake is when we do the same mistake again.

After all, what you believe makes the difference.

I always believe no matter what the best will always reach me in any form. Even if I settle with the worst life throws me out and pushes me towards the best.

THE BEST IS ALWAYS YET TO COME!!

WHO ARE YOU?

 The most important question one has to find answer in his lifetime.

But this question is perceived as simple as possible because of its frequent usage and under estimation of one’s own power. Every person will come across this question often in his life time.

But the magic happens when he asks this question to himself.

Imagine and just recollect the answers you made to this question when it is asked to you over years.

Let me take myself as an example.

Who are you:

Am sathish, studying lkg, son of…….

This might be the first answer to this question from us which is most probably taught by our parents and teachers.

After some years it became like

Am…….studying……. Son of …. I want to be an engineer sometimes doctor, District collector, Actor........

Then it goes like

Am. Studying……Engineering

Am…. Working for…..

Am…. Husband/wife of

Am…………..father of….

Am……….who worked as.

Finally wen am in death bed some people might answer for a question and the answer might be it’s a dead body!!!

Often basic identities are perceived as purpose of life

Yes it’s a body, it is just a body when our soul rented it to make into the world.

Most people make this question as simple as possible where they answer to it with their past, their education, their family, their profession. But the magic happens only when you ask this question ‘who are you’ to yourself in front of the mirror. That is the moment, you will realize the importance of this most valuable question?

“Who are you?”

Answer this question in future perspective

It’s not about who you were, who you are now, but it’s actually who you are destined to be, finding the reason you are here in this world.

The future you matters.

It took me 4 years to understand the real meaning of this question.

The first time I asked this question my answer was I want to be rich

Then, I wanted to be an entrepreneur, later a social activist.

After sometime I wanted to be an author, motivational speaker and it goes on depending on my intentions.

Later I understood it’s a journey. Find the real who you are, who you are destined to be, You reach the destination at the end of the journey…..but the journey starts only when you start asking the question to yourself.

Ask as much as time you can and you will find as much as answers every time but answers will be bigger than your answers to others when they asked the same question to you.

Find the you, within you not from others, not from your past, not from your present. This very first question you ask within you will awake the person inside you, who will make wonders, who will make everything possible for you, who will make you to believe that you can move mountains!!!

When you reach your destiny, when you become who you are destined to be, the world will answer to the question who are you??

Ask the magical question now!!! Prepare the answer!! Who you want to be in next 5 years! Next 10 years! Next 20 years! You will find the answers in your own journey!!!

Let’s start our journey!! The real journey towards your destiny starts when you start asking the question who are you- and find the answer within you!!!!

DREAMS

LIFE STARTS AS DREAM
your mother dreams from the moment you enter in to her womb.you are the result of your mother's dreams
DREAM CARRIES YOUR LIFE
dreams and the thoughts you carry on, in your mind shapes your life. dreams are the destination you prefer to reach before you start walking in your life. 
LIFE CONTINUES IN FORM OF DREAMS
when your life ends at a point you die but your dreams live. you live!!! in the dreams of others................

ESCAPE PLAN

Be a programmer

 Let us imagine that there was an industry which do manufacturing using 100s of automatic programmed robots. On those robots three robots were having different thoughts and they always speak about escaping from the industry to be independent outside. One day, according to their intelligence level they were seriously discussing about escaping from the industry. They discussed the difficulties in escaping the industry, and one robot said that it has been said that the industry is surrounded by a very big compound wall.  They decided to meet next day, each with an idea to cross the wall.

Next day the 3 again met to discuss about escaping plans, Robo 1 said I was trained for climbing up towards the tall machines, I’ll steal the ladder and hide it somewhere. So we can climb the wall and escape from here

Robo 2 said I was programmed and trained for breaking rocks, I will steal the hammer from my work place and will hide it at a place, if the wall is taller than ladder, we can break the wall and escape from here.

Robo 3 didn’t had any idea it took care of arranging and processing the plans, and three were satisfied with their plans.

The day arrived Robo 1 and 2 wer getting ready to escape, Robo 3 came to them crying

“we are being  cheated, we can’t escape, our life will end here in this industry, we r not going to be independent anymore”

1 & 2 asked together “what the hell happened did anybody found our plans”

3 replied “even if that had happened we could have executed our plan some other day”

1&2: then what the hell happened?”

3: we planned to climb the wall using ladder, if it is tall we planned to break it

But.…..

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But…

There is no such compound wall out there! then how the hell we can execute our plans!!!!”

Robo 1 understood the situation and consoled 2&3, and they three together took a decision that

“this is a place to be highly secured, robots are that much dangerous, so surely one day they will construct the wall , and we are going to execute our plans on that day, let us believe in ourselves!”

Now come to the real world , now replace these robots with youngsters,  youngsters are programmed with such imaginary compound walls in this corporate world, for example take this: when an Indian youngster starts thinking about earning , when he completes education, surrounded with family problems, financial problems, marriage, children…. These are the walls which is constructed around an Indian youth, only then he starts executing his plans which is mostly getting an job which is another chain being  tied around him….

why cant a student earn , innovate, execute while he learns, when there is no such walls, the time when he can fly high, take a student’s life,

24 hours can be divided as follows,

                8 hours= sleep and other daily routines

                8 hours =college

                8 hours-??? Fb, chat, tv, play, sit simply?????

The last 8 hour is the time which should be managed, you are programmed that you are meant to be ordinary human being, when you break that program and write your own program and become a programmer you become extraordinary!!!!! If you really feel that 8 hours in college and 8 hours in job after education is going to help you to survive in life, then believe me , this special extra 8 hours is surely going to make you the extraordinary…. Start your fight now not when you are surrounded by the wall!! Break the mindset! Break the program! Be a programmer!!!!!

EASY BREATHING!!!

When do you feel that you are growing?

When do you think about wasting or utilizing time?

When do you feel that every day is a countdown of your life!!!

Mostly a man/woman thinks about, feels about wasting time, or spending time with a loved one, or working for his/her dreams, or the time he/she wasted, on his/her birthdays or some on the eve of new year, some on the first day of every month, some on the mornings of Mondays, some even think about it every morning.

But do you know what,

your countdown runs not every year!

Not every month!

Not every day!

Not every minute!!

It runs down every time you breathe!!!

Every time you breathe, you loss some % of your life, body, time, age etc…..

The main source of our body to do corresponding works is ENERGY!!

How the energy is produced?

The three main raw materials needed for production of energy are AIR, WATER and FOOD we eat. The energy is produced by our body by with the reaction of these three main raw materials.

The required output of this reaction is energy and other unnecessary wastages and Co₂are left out. But a small % of oxides which is produced because of the reaction of oxygen we intake stays inside.

This oxides when stay inside,starts decaying our cells and parts of our body.

MORE BREATHE=MORE OXYGEN=MORE OXIDES

Even you can find it from the fact that the rate of breathing affects the years we live.

For eg, tortoise is the organism which has slower rate of breathing and it lives up to 200 years… even you can find aasanas in yoga to practice slow breathing.

Some part of oxides comes out through sweat. You can see athletes and dancers who sweat a lot & stay younger.

Whatever the ultimate fact is that, eachbreathe of yours, is a countdown of your life.so!!!!!!

Stop breathing!!!!

No you can’t do that!!!!
STOP WASTING!!!!  START ROCKING!!!!